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For one thing, masturbating when you're in a relationship or looking at porn when masturbating aren't inherently bad things! You don't have to stop doing either one.
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but I honestly don't think that's a very helpful or accurate way to approach the issue. There is a lot of talk about "addiction" to porn, sex, masturbation, etc. I definitely hear you on not liking the weird "masturbation is bad" messaging of online spaces like the nofap reddit! I don't think that's a helpful or healthy approach to handling masturbation even if you want to cut down for other reasons. I could really use some help with this problem, but these nofap subreddits have a huge catholic puritistic masturbation-is-a-sin component which I'm honestly not comfortable with. Only time when I go even for weeks without porn for some reason is when I'm traveling. I'm scared this becomes a bigger problem than it is right now and every time I try going cold turkey, I relapse right away. And emotionally it is better, but sexually I feel like my orgasms are stronger when I masturbate (but only if I'm watching porn, no difference in orgasm intensity if I masturbate without porn). I can get it hard and cum with my partner, but it feels like I need to focus to get myself to orgasm when I'm having sex. I'm afraid that sometimes I look forward to masturbation more than to sex (even though it is amazing).
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I do have a really active and fun and amazing and fulfilling sex life with my boyfriend, but on top of that I still feel the extra need to masturbate watching porn. I'm 26, gay guy now in a new happy fulfilling relationship! I thought this habit would disappear once I fall in love and it is much less frequent but it is still here. So I've been watching porn and masturbating.almost every single day since I was 14.